The Best Way to You

Everyone has what they believe is the best way to be themselves. Problem with this is that this is a bunch of crap and extremely delusional on your part. If you were to look at your life through the eyes of an outsider...outside the box, so to speak, you would find that you are so far from reality on how your life really is compared to your perception that it would floor you.
The best and only gift you can give yourself is that of true and absolute honesty. This means the only way to enjoy the reality of your life is to be outright real with all aspects of who and what you are all about. Are you real with yourself? This would be the start of the journey to the real world.
Does it matter if you are a/an procrastinator, manipulator, organizer, leader, follower, and the list goes on?
The answer is NO! You have to be honest with yourself and assess how it's working for you and if it is or isn't. Then ask yourself, do I want to change and for who? Am I really happy?... I mean really happy. If it is for yourself then give it a reason and go for it. If it is for someone else, is it worth it to me and most importantly...are THEY worth it to me and would this make ME happy?
The best way to you is to first of all be real. The second step is to assess the areas in your life that need attention or that are causing you stress or pain. The third would be a course of action with possible outcomes of your actions. The next steps would be what would make you happy and be real enough to take the steps so YOU can spend the rest of you life happy and loving who you are as a person. If you can't love yourself as a person...you need to evaluate you and why you are the way you are and get real.
The best way to you is being real with yourself...everyone else is just a bonus in your world. Another thing is how can you be all that you can be and what can you do to fix it? I know...do you?